We speak of secrets as if they are hidden deeds. A thing we did, a thought we had, a desire we feel, tucked away in a mental lockbox. This is a superficial understanding. A secret is not a concealed object. It is a disowned self. It is a fragment of your consciousness that has been tried in […]
The Secret Self: An Inmate in the Prison of Your Own Life Read Post »
We treat people as objects. Discrete, bounded entities with properties: kind, cruel, intelligent, dull. We interact with their surfaces—their words, actions, expressions. This model is not just incomplete; it is fundamentally incorrect. A person is not a noun. A person is a verb in a state of permanent unfolding. More precisely: a person is a portal. They are not
People Are Portals: The Interface Theory of Consciousness Read Post »
Society demands that parents feel only love and fulfillment. The unspeakable reality is a storm of resentment, regret, and boredom. A dissection of the secret grief and profound ambivalence that defines the experience for many.
The Unspoken Truth: On the Profound Ambivalence of Parenthood Read Post »
